“It’s never too late… To Cuddle Someone
Life without touch is hollow. Cuddles transmit love. They give warmth. And hope. And trust. The feelings flow back and forth. A cuddle can make someone’s day. It can even save a life. Cuddle generously. And often.” – Patrick Lindsay
Quote in book: “Never underestimate the healing power of touch.” ~ Anonymous
I LOVE CUDDLING! It always feels so good. I grew up in a family where we would hug and cuddle and kiss each other all the time, so I’m a very affectionate person. Cuddling is awesome. I think I’m a serial cuddler. I hug everyone. I am that girl! The “hugger”. The girl you just met and is now hugging you. That’s me! I feel that everyone needs a hug. We need touch. We need affection. Whether is a pat on the shoulder or a full on embrace...We all need love! Cuddling/Hugging is the easiest way to do that.
I think I only have one problem w/ cuddling and that is I can only stand it in short bursts. There’s the cuddling at night. I can only do that for so long. I get really HOT. I know some people who can cuddle all night. I can’t all that body heat makes me super HOT (as in warm…get your minds out of the gutter). Then I get all sweaty and well...no one likes a sticky, wet cuddle… ick!
Then there's the super long cuddle sessions. I know when my mom tries to “cuddle” me (more like devour me) I’m always.. "Ok that’s enough for now. 5 secs is all you get" When the “cuddle” goes on for more than 5 sec I get a little uncomfortable. However, when my mom always tries to hug my bro and i for so long I always feel bad, cause it's not that I don't love her back, but she gets a little too excited. Now I know where I get my "cuddle" gene from! Anyways, I love you, Mom! Even if I wouldn't want to "cuddle" w/ you right now. - Let me explain.
On the phone today my mom told me she was "radioactive". I immediately pictured a green glow around her like The Green Lantern. She's actually "radioactive" because she's gonna take a stress test tomorrow for her heart (don't worry...she's fine... but their making sure of it by doing the stress test). They shot her up w/ isotopes for it, hence the radio-activeness (I thought I made that word up, but the spellchecker found it). Anyway, the other funny thing is that her doctor said she has to carry around a card tomorrow when she goes thru airport security. It's so that the TSA agents won't arrest her for setting off a machine. haha. I couldn't stop laughing. She'll apparently be radioactive for 3 days! Love you mom. I'll love you even more when you're no longer radioactive and I promise to let you "cuddle" w/ me for at least 10 secs next time I see you!
I consulted The ORACLE to see what was out there and I found this article on wiki How: “How to Cuddle” I think it’s so funny there’s an article about this, so I had to repost it. To make it fun I’ll put pics of me doing the things they are telling you to do. I was gonna put up pics of me cuddling w/ my friends, but I decided in honor of Father’s day this Sunday to put up pics of me (and my bro) “cuddling” with my dad!
- Lean your head on someone's shoulder. If someone does this to you, lean your head gently on theirs.
- Put your arm around someone's shoulders.
- Put your arm around someone's waist. If someone does this to you, you can put your arm around their waist too, or around their shoulders.
- Rest your head on someone's chest or lap.
- Hold hands. You can put your palms together, kind of like a handshake, or intertwine your fingers. Even just resting your hand on top of theirs is a nice display of affection.
- Keep doing all of the above, in various combinations, and guess what? You're cuddling!
2 comments:
As I read this, Mason was asleep on my chest...cuddling. I love this feeling.
These pics made me miss my favorite uncle. :(
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